Most of Christians especially teens have the characteristic of shyness. Shyness is the major obstacle for us when talking to strangers and when making friends. We all know that evil always try to impart this character to us to stop us from sharing the Word of God.
To share the Word of God we should be friendly. You don't have to expect that someone has to approach you first, you are the one have responsible for it. Here are the steps to make you friendly:
Step 1: Don't rely on yourself.
If you are not that friendly and you see an opportunity to talk to someone else, make a deep breath and make a little PRAYER to strengthen you.
" I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength." - Philippians 4:13
Step 2: You should motivate yourself.
Always think that all of us have potential to communicate to anyone. Ask yourself, "Why they can talk and make friends so easily, and why i can't? It's because you are not trying and you are afraid of rejection. They experienced rejection, but at least they tried. They have learned that being rejected is nothing that's why they are friendly and continue on making friends.
Step 3: While approaching, make a friendly smile.
Strangers can make a wrong impression towards you depends on your facial expression. Avoid laughing. It will make them think you are over reacted. Just show them a little smile to show you are harmless.
Step 4. Throw a common greeting like Hi!
When they heard the word Hi's or Hello's they will surely think that you want a little chat. Start a conversation about the things in your surroundings. If there is a smooth conversation then it's time to ask their name. Never ask the name at first.
Step 5. Always end with God Bless You!
They will glad to hear " God Bless You!", it makes them think they are important and they will give a decent impression towards you.
